I received a comment from a woman yesterday that gave me some insight into a paragraph I wrote back in the third post entitled “Vive La Difference?” Here is the paragraph: “So, we have pretty much the same thingies and, if you do pretty much the same things to her thingies as she does to your corresponding thingies – or vice versa – you will have pretty much the same results. Everything centers around her clitoris and the nerve-engorged membranes around it and your glans and the nerve-engorged membranes around it.”
Now, here is the comment from yesterday: “… I’ve been sleeping with a trans woman who recently went on hormones, and she has begun having what you call pure orgasms. However, I’ve also been the first to treat her member as though it were a clitoris, focusing primarily on the head area and doing more circular motions instead of stroking the shaft. So which is responsible for the multiorgasmic experience? The motions or the hormones? Or both? Something someone wiser than I should study I think.”
I answered the comment as best I could – “I’m no scientist… just keep playing and enjoying the experience…etc” – but wasn’t quite satisfied with my response. Then, in the middle of last night I woke up and realized that she, in the comment, was describing perfectly what happened to G and me. As you recall from an earlier post, I was recovering from surgery, G. was pleasuring me orally, I couldn’t respond as usual, I became passive, G was concentrating her talents around my Glans and the adjacent sweet meat, and I had an orgasm without cuming. That’s what happened with me.
The writer of the comment comment was a woman and fully understands what her clitoris enjoys and, when she adapted that to her partner’s Glans, it produced a pure orgasm.
So, I would advise women who would like to help their husbands achieve pure orgasms to just do to his thingie the same thingies that you would want him to do to your thingie and see what happens. And I would advise their husbands to relax and let her.
Two lessons from this for me: We are all far more alike than we are different and the more you guys join this discussion, the more we will all get out of it.
Who knew the Golden Rule was applicable to fucking?